Every now and again, i like to read relationship stuff online. The best stuff is not in the article itself, it’s in the comments to the article. How many times have you read a comment to a youtube video or major newspaper article and just laughed your ass off? Anyhow, below are two comments to an article that really made me go, hmmmm. Check em out.
COMMENT ONE::
“I once boasted that the easiest way to get laid was through the hearts of the thirty something women, a horrible, cruel, but effective con. The thirty something woman is the easy prey of the serial monogamists, who is an expert at pretending to be everything a woman wants, but usually only sticks around until just before you find out that he is a fraud, then it’s on to the next woman that will love him more than anything and treat him as a king. This may seem incredulous, but, sadly, it isn’t, and I am not proud to say so.”
COMMENT TWO::
“I date often, am VERY SLOW to commit, I don’t allow race to deter me from seeing someone, and I’m happy…I’ve learned to love he whom loves me best. I wear weave, rarely go to the gym, w/ dark complexion, and LOVE MY BLACK MEN…So…I’m not the archetype for interracial dating but When I’m approached…I graciously accept! Afri.American woman…Residing in the Mid-South…I married outside of my race…But am aware that Afr.American women are rarely approached by other races…This is especially true in my region. I divorced 5yrs ago and have been casually dating since. Admittedly…My biggest head/heartaches have been with Afr.American Men. This is not to say that the Caucasians, Hispanics, and Asians in which I’ve dated haven’t presented their own unique issues. My father offered this sound advice to me on this very night…(1) Be happy with you…Inside and Out…Misery loves company So don’t let it win! Unhappy people will down those around them. (2) Dad says that women shouldn’t “look” for men, but be social and easily approached. Be a woman who’s sought after instead of one he settled for. Let hunters go hunt. A man not looking is a man not wanting! (3) Dad says…Stop being so easily smitten…Monogamy should be earned by both parties-Not handed out like free samples at the supermarket. My dad has NEVER pushed me to settle down or commit myself to anyone…But only to enjoy being single/casual dating. (4) Dad says…Want a companion for companionship’s sake..Money, sex, or other pressures shouldn’t have women out looking for a man. (5) Dad says…Don’t get caught up in pedigree, looks, or posessions…A modest looking dude w/ good work ethic who’s a law abiding citizen, pays his bills on time, is respectful/ honest to you and others should be enough for most women… (6) Dad says ya’ll can iron out all that other junk later. This advice was to me as his daughter, but I think some other people’s daughters could use this as well. “
What do you think?
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