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Rutina Wesley

Rutina Wesley

I am constantly looking for images of medium to deep brown skinned women to not necessarily counter the dominant images of lighter skinned celebrities, but adequately represent ALL the women on the wide spectrum of beautiful women regardless of race or ethnicity.  Along with kelly rowland, cynthia bailey, and others, actress, rutina wesley is...

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Law of Averages

Law of Averages

Why You Are Still Single:  The Law of Averages Why are you still single? That’s the big question.  I am going to attempt to answer this question for you and I’m not going to lie to you, bullshit you, or pull any punches with you. This is might hurt a little.  (I suggest you...

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Black Women, Natural Hair & Dating

Black Women, Natural Hair & Dating

A month ago, the black blogosphere lit up with posts and comments in response to Lil’ Wayne’s (alleged) comments to and about deep complexioned black women.    I didn’t give it my attention at the time because…um…he’s stupid.  However, name calling and harshly critiquing black woman and their (our) physical features seems...

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Dating: How to Ask a Guy Out

Dating:  How to Ask a Guy Out

Don’t!!! …better yet, why don’t you just go ahead and stick your head in a meat grinder?  Cause in the end, that’s exactly what it’ll feel like. (this is a cute video, but don’t you even think about doing this in real life) (whoever asks the other person out does the heavy lifting and...

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Self-Esteem: Weight

Self-Esteem:  Weight

I’ve said it before.  I’ve never lived in a body that wasn’t small or “normal” by society’s standards.  And I don’t credit willpower or a workout regimen, I credit good genes.  In other words, I got lucky and I’m aware of that. However, I do know what it means to not be considered “normal”...

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Are You Ready for Some Football?

Are You Ready for Some Football?

Hello lovelies!  It’s Friday and Auntie Tootie has a surprise for you!  Yay!  It’s football season!  No, that’s not the gift (Auntie Tootie hates football!).  But you’re getting warmer…warmer… Today, Auntie Tootie has come bearing the gift of one-more-thing-you-don’t-need-to-waste-your-time-obsessing-over -– knowledge of and interest in football. It’s not football season quite yet, but with...

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Attraction: Weight

Attraction:  Weight

Here’s another piece on the subject of attractiveness—weight.  As we’ve already discussed, if you’re single and you prefer to be dating but you find that you have a hard time meeting guys or getting guys to notice you or getting the kind of guys that  you like to notice you, more than likely, this...

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Attraction: How Men Choose Women

Attraction:  How Men Choose Women

Ever wondered how long it takes for a man to figure out if he likes a woman?  Well, this guy, and the girls at “The View” can tell you.

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Beauty: Plastic Surgery & Ethnic Tweaking

Beauty:  Plastic Surgery & Ethnic Tweaking

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Attraction: Weight

Attraction:  Weight

Is Tyra Banks a hypocrite? I don’t know about that, but i know for a fact that she had a lobotomy 40 years ago. Ok, let me stop before i get sued for all sorts of libel and slander. Tyra is not 40 years old. lol. I am obviously unimpressed with Tyra. Personally, I...

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Attraction: Weight

Attraction:  Weight

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Random: Chaldean Dating Service

Random:  Chaldean Dating Service

Interesting piece I found at the Free Press.  It references men and how choosy they are when it comes to selecting a spouse.  The interesting portions are highlighted here for your convenience. Chaldean singles turn to matchmaker to find like-minded life partner (by Georgea Kovanis - Free Press Staff Writer) Professional matchmaker Theresa Sitto is outgoing,...

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The Law of Averages

The Law of Averages

Why You Are Still Single, The Law of Averages Why are you still single? That’s the big question.  I am going to attempt to answer this question for you and I’m not going to lie to you, bullshit you, or pull any punches with you. This is might hurt a little.  (I suggest you...

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