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When He Stops Calling…

When He Stops Calling…

How many times has this happened to you? You meet a guy, you hit if off, you go on one, two, three dates, maybe more, and then all of a sudden, he disappears. What gives?   Listen to Courtney and Jesse go through the motions while Ryan Seacrest instigates mediates.   CLICK to LISTEN!!!! Sound...

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Video:: Why Men Aren’t Manning Up

Video::  Why Men Aren’t Manning Up

We’ve had this conversation before.  Yes.  You and I.  Remember this? In that post, I explained why men are reluctant to commit these days and I drew the connection between this and why they seem so  preoccupied with adolescent fixations like video games. In the video below, this lady (says the same damn thing...

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Video:: A Call to Men

Video::  A Call to Men

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Men Are Dogs?

Men Are Dogs?

I never compare men to dogs (or any other animal) and I hate it when other women do.  Beside the fact that it’s a subtle (or outright) form of male bashing, it’s dehumanizing and as a general rule, it’s just a terrible idea.  The minute you compare a human being to anything lacking in...

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The Difference in Communication Styles Between Men & Women

The Difference in Communication Styles Between Men & Women

I stole this from somewhere.  I read material like this often and as I’ve said before, our differences are the biggest source of the issues between us.  Peep it below.  It’s just an intro.  I’ll get into it more later!  Ciao! “The whole goddamn business of what you’re calling intimacy bugs the hell out of...

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Re: A Woman’s Work…Sigh…

Re:  A Woman’s Work…Sigh…

So news broke a few days ago about the split between actress, Courtney Cox (from the hit show “Friends”), and her husband, actor, David Arquette.  I can’t say I’ve been following it closely, but I guess I’m following it closely enough to report this post to you.  Get this (now, i’m gossiping), David says...

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The Conversation:: Dominoes and Domesticity [video]

The Conversation::  Dominoes and Domesticity [video]

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The Conversation:: Dominoes and Down Low [video]

The Conversation::  Dominoes and Down Low [video]

Okay.  I admit.  This post has nothing to do with the picture.  The picture is just freaking hilarious.  The conversation in the video below is equal parts funny, serious, and informative.  Black men having a candid conversation about the down low phenomenon. It’s a twenty minute video, so watch if you have time.

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Repost 6/22/10:: Men Who Don’t Like Women

Repost 6/22/10::  Men Who Don’t Like Women

If you’re single*** and you aren’t choosing to be single, there are several possible reasons for this.  What I do here is observe the current dating landscape and trends, examine all the ins and outs, report my findings, analyze, and share my advice or possible solutions if they exist.  I’ve been doing this for...

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Black Women, Religion & Dating

Black Women, Religion & Dating

Updated! I think many people fail to realize that when the topic of “Why are so many successful black women single?” people tend to neglect the SUCCESSFUL part.  It’s definitely a class issue as women of all classes are not equally affected by the phenomenon.  Yes, there IS a shortage!  Do not even try...

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News:: Men Are Complaining for No Reason (Again); And I’m Supposed to Believe They’re Simple…

News::  Men Are Complaining for No Reason (Again); And I’m Supposed to Believe They’re Simple…

NEW YORK, Sept. 23, 2010 Men: We Have It Tougher than Prior Generations Cosmo Out with Surprising Findings of Survey of 1,500 Men on Their Changing Roles, Goals, Needs; Mag Holding “Man Summit” (CBS) Fifty years ago, men were the dominant wage earners in America and ruled the workplace.  But, points out CBS News Correspondent...

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Real Men Cry

Real Men Cry

I love this website :  http://goodmenproject.com/ and i visit it from time to time when i’m looking for stories about men’s lives.  Here’s a gem i wanted to share. Real men cry. These are their stories. There was a time when my kids were little and I was going through a messy divorce when...

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