Question: I’m having a hard time determining if my fiance is “on the down low”. I don’t know if it’s because I read...
Man Law
Do Not Lower Your Standards
So yesterday, I posted my second entry on whether men are intimidated by successful women and I concluded that they are. I gave you some reasons for this and even though there are other reasons, I’ll tackle those at a later date. Anyhow, one of the suggestions “experts” have dispensed in this category of...
The Games Guys Play & Stuff Women Accept
Ok, so i already told you that i think tyra banks is a brain donor. Ok, so i still believe that…but i have to admit that sometimes her shows are good (no) decent (no) okay (no) serve a purpose (yeah) and for now, it serves this purpose:: If you see yourself in any of...
Man Law #2: Guy Stuff + Male Bonding
I find pretending to like any activity that you don’t really like just to impress a guy pretty taxing. As a result, yesterday, in commemoration of the upcoming football season, I gave you girls a tax break:: you do not need to learn or pretend to enjoy football to get somewhere with men. (Soon,...
Guys, Gaming, and Why Girls Gotta Get Over It
[Note: this blogpost may be a bit lengthy, but if you’re having an issue with your man (or men in general) over gaming, you might find it illuminating so bear with me. If not, don't worry. I’ve taken the liberty of dividing the post into several parts so you can skip and go directly...
Cheat Sheet:: Man Law #5.2 (women)
News:: I’m going green! Yes, it’s that time of year– back-to-school time – and once again, I’ll be a card-carrying student. The good news is: I’m pretty excited about going back. The bad news is: I’m going to have to scale down the frequency of my posts. The first day of classes is getting...
Are You Ready for Some Football?
Hello lovelies! It’s Friday and Auntie Tootie has a surprise for you! Yay! It’s football season! No, that’s not the gift (Auntie Tootie hates football!). But you’re getting warmer…warmer… Today, Auntie Tootie has come bearing the gift of one-more-thing-you-don’t-need-to-waste-your-time-obsessing-over -– knowledge of and interest in football. It’s not football season quite yet, but with...
How to Handle a Man
Before You Date Pt. III(a):: How to Handle a Man “It’s a man’s job to initiate a relationship and a woman’s job to maintain it.” –fsg Since this blog is primarily directed toward single folks (women in particular), I talk a lot about attraction because it’s the initial obstacle to dating and, whether one...
Dating:: Where to Meet Men
One of the questions most commonly asked by single women is: “When is the right time to have sex with a man?” However, the most commonly asked question by single women is perhaps “Where can I find men?” For me, personally, this question happens to be the most important, yet most annoying, question ever. ...
Dating Myth: The “Good Guy”
Good guys finish last? My ass! While they might not finish first, they for damn sure don’t finish last. We love them — good guys. They’re the polar opposite of the bad boy. They don’t do drugs, have never been to prison, have 401k’s, and most important, they floss before bedtime. Contrary to popular...
WOMAN Law
Before You Date Pt. II:: Do Your work! “I keep watching what I do to see what I actually believe.” ~Sister Helen Prejean In my last substantive entry, I introduced MAN LAW to you all and offered a quick overview of what men value, how they think, and their corresponding behavior. While I consider...
MAN Law
Before You Date Pt. I:: Know “THE LAW” Successful dating depends a lot on these three things: (1) luck, (2) timing, and (3) skill. Unfortunately, I can’t do anything about your luck, or your genetics, or your looks. And while you can control some aspects of your physical appearance (i.e., your “controllables”), for the...
Reading: “The Act-Like-a-Man Box,” by Paul Kivel
I am firm believer that one of the biggest reasons why, collectively, men and women have relationship issues is because we don’t understand each other. Sure, we all might be human beings, but from the time we are small children, we are indoctrinated by society to think and act differently. Girls are socialized to...
