Question: I’m having a hard time determining if my fiance is “on the down low”. I don’t know if it’s because I read the book early in our relationship so I “find” the characteristics discussed in the book in him, or if it’s real. Reply:: Thanks for your question. This is...
So this post comes on the heels of two posts from two different sources. The first is from our friend Dan Savage and the second from the homies over at ubf (hi guys!). Anyhow, since these days it seems like it’s a lot easier for me to write a reactionary post rather than initiate...
Please watch Dan Savage Discuss How to Make A Long-Term Relationship Work So, last nite, my bff and I were talking about one thing or the other and somehow, the conversation landed on something Dan Savage said. I forget exactly what it was, but whatever…anyhow, I had been perusing his videos all night until...
A close friend shared this article with me a while back and I didn’t feel the need to address it back then because I figured that most of you would be smart enough to dismiss it. Apparently, I overestimated some of you :) . Anyhow, this is my succinct, no bullshit response to it...
How many times has this happened to you? You meet a guy, you hit if off, you go on one, two, three dates, maybe more, and then all of a sudden, he disappears. What gives? Listen to Courtney and Jesse go through the motions while Ryan Seacrest instigates mediates. CLICK to LISTEN!!!! Sound...
A month ago, the black blogosphere lit up with posts and comments in response to Lil’ Wayne’s (alleged) comments to and about deep complexioned black women. I didn’t give it my attention at the time because…um…he’s stupid. However, name calling and harshly critiquing black woman and their (our) physical features seems...
As we close out this year, I want to say thank you for following the for Single Girls blog and this for Single Girls facebook page. I appreciate each and every one of you. And, as we embark upon a new year, I want to remind you that I’m not going to change and...
Hmmm, now this is interesting….. …watch and then i’ll tell you what i think Long sigh…. …okay. I think i’ve already given you my stance on “other women” and women who have affairs with married, or otherwise “attached men. Just in case you need a reminder or clarification if...
1) Dating is a competitive sport. Learn the rules if you want to play the game. 2) You are not crazy; it’s not you. Unless, of course, you are; then it is. Seek therapy. 3) When it comes to seeking a partner, Men prioritize sex and physical attractiveness. Women prioritize emotional...
So I’m sitting here catching up on my readings for school. When I am here alone, I allow my itunes to keep me company. And since I’m the only one who gets to choose the songs, I’m never disappointed by the songs on my playlist that play at random. (if you’re ever curious about...
It takes a village to write a blog. No. For real. I think I told you girls (and guys) that I would be starting graduate school this fall. Well I did and I need somebody to shoot me. What the hell was I thinking? First of all, I’m too fucking old to be back...
The only thing more annoying than “How to Keep Your Man From Cheating” advice is “How to Keep Your Man From Cheating Advice” coming from a man. It feels so disingenuous to me. Why? Because they know full well that there’s NOTHING you can do to ensure that your man won’t cheat. Even if...
If you’re single*** and you aren’t choosing to be single, there are several possible reasons for this. What I do here is observe the current dating landscape and trends, examine all the ins and outs, report my findings, analyze, and share my advice or possible solutions if they exist. I’ve been doing this for...
