If you’re single*** and you aren’t choosing to be single, there are several possible reasons for this. What I do here is observe the current dating landscape and trends, examine all the ins and outs, report my findings, analyze, and share my advice or possible solutions if they exist. I’ve been doing this for...
I am totally content with beating you over the head with this issue because you need to know that you are not exempt from the rule. No one is. Wait. If you don’t believe me (I already said it here –> Integration Rule) maybe you’ll believe her.
Before You Date Pt. I:: Know “THE LAW” Successful dating depends a lot on these three things: (1) luck, (2) timing, and (3) skill. Unfortunately, I can’t do anything about your luck, or your genetics, or your looks. And while you can control some aspects of your physical appearance (i.e., your “controllables”), for the...
I’m sure I’ve said this dozens of times by now: Dating is a competitive sport and if you want to WIN, you’ll have to beat out all the other potential candidates. This, unfortunately means that someone will get hurt. Hey, it’s is a zero-sum game. In order for someone to win, someone else...
Why You Are Still Single, The Law of Averages Why are you still single? That’s the big question. I am going to attempt to answer this question for you and I’m not going to lie to you, bullshit you, or pull any punches with you. This is might hurt a little. (I suggest you...
I know what you’re thinking: “Oh boy! There she goes again…talking about the same shit again! When is she gonna come off it.” I know. I’m sorry. By now, if you’ve been keeping up, you read the string of posts about dating and attractiveness and how what you look like plays a huge role...
New book i’m reading, and loving so far. Found an excerpt online. Very interesting…. An excerpt from US Guys by Charlie LeDuff The American man has been taught that while it is better to avoid a fight; that honor cannot always be defended with reason. He should never admit fear. He should always strive...
Once, years ago, I was engaged in a prolonged game of romantic chicken with an ex-girlfriend. She was married at the time. And she had a child. Not exactly the sport of kings, I’ll grant, but sport was what it seemed (at least for a time). Over a period of months we met at...
broads, chicks, sluts, hookers, hoes, bitches, and on and on, are all terms that men, when they’re with each other and outside the presence of women, use to describe women. It’s a crucial part of man culture–demeaning and showing contempt for women. Do you feel any way about it? If so what do you...
If you’re single*** and you aren’t choosing to be single, there are several possible reasons for this. What I do here is observe the current dating landscape and trends, examine all the ins and outs, report my findings, analyze, and share my advice or possible solutions if they exist. I’ve been doing this for...
“stop keeping it under lock and key…” Last time, in Part I of this piece, we touched on the question that single horny women everywhere are dying to know: “When is the right time to have sex with a man?” I began by addressing the ever popular and often evoked 90-day rule. Two...
This time, I’m just gonna get right into it. I’m not going to introduce this post with any cutesy little anecdotes or words of wisdom, except to say that when it comes to sex and dating/relationships, I’ve had one-night stands, two-night stands, week long fuck-fests, short-tem quasi-committed relationships, long term committed relationships, and damn...
Although I’m not one to state the obvious, I felt it necessary to preface the rest of what I’m going to say in this blog post with “No one is perfect.” Every man you meet is going to come with some baggage, drama, and perhaps a few loose screws and this totally okay. Furthermore,...
